| I wanted to share my own experiences
in life, which has helped me to grow as a more concerned human
being.
My father used to tell us a proverb in our childhood that
'charity begins at home'. At that time I was unable to understand
its meaning, but now I can understand how deep it meant. To
start good acts, you don't have to go outside, act of kindness
can start from home. Being a good human being what really
matters in life. I think, meaningful life simply means how
much you have done for others in your small life. My prayer
to God always includes these words. Oh God! Please make me
a good human being.
Since childhood, I always had some questions, in my mind.
One question was how anyone can be so poor that he has no
bread to eat, no home to protect him from rain. We had a two
or three servants, when I was a child. I used to watch them
and their children curiously. I was surprised to see them
laughing and enjoying inspite of so much scarcity. Now I realized,
it nothing costs to laugh even if you are facing problems,
even if you have nothing to be proud of.
In my small life, I have seen so much sufferings and pain.
Death of my brother, my aunt dying of cancer………. I can never
forget such days of pain and grief. All these have helped
me to develop as a better human being then before and make
me a concerned person. Two years back, one of my maid's husbands
had a cancer. My mother used to console her giving her all
the aids that were possible.
I used to remember how she absolutely changed after her husband's
death. Smile was gone form her lips. This has taught me that
your cannot fight from fate, you have to accept life as it
comes. The only thing you can do is to bring smiles on others
face.
Since I was in school, I had .a passion for nature, animals
and small children. I still remember those days watching butterflies,
seeing clouds and comparing it with different faces. We had
a large area surrounding our home with many trees and flowers.
My mother used to tell me that don't pick flowers or leaves
from a tree, it will hurt them. Now I laugh on my act of telling
sorry to the plant after plucking flowers.
When I was 10 years old, I found one kitten in my house in
winter night. I fed her with milk and insisted to keep her.
But my family told that it would create problem. I still remember
how I went on the road and kept that kitten near a tree. My
whole night went on weeping for that kitten.
Myself any my elder brother used to teach small children
of poor families when we were in school. There were children
of our maids also. That experience of teaching small children
was very exciting. My brother asked one student that what
does the English word 'My' means. All hands raised and in
one voice they all shouted it means. Actually in local language
mother is called 'My'.
Life has many things to offer, only you have to be alert
that good moments doesn't escapes form your hand. In one of
my birthday, I was feeling lonely and alone. My loneliness
was wiped off at the moment I went to nearby school of handicapped
children. I gave them biscuits and toffees. It brought smile
on children faces and I also forgot my pain.
Two months ago, in winter a bitch gave birth to five puppies
in my institute. I had decided that I will do every effort
to keep them alive. I used to bring biscuits and fed them.
My classmates used to laugh at me but it didn't stop me. Sometimes
my father says that you have got more mercy for animals than
human beings. Then I have only one sentence to say that at
least the human being can convey their sufferings to others
but how can an animal can tell its pain?
If God comes and asks me wishes that you want to be fulfilled,
I will ask him
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Make every person, a good human
being. |
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Cure for every disease in the
world. |
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World free of all the weapons. |
I hope that some day all these wishes will be fulfilled.
Then world will be a better place to live.
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